hubby truly having trouble with this. not me. but i think his ascension issues are hitting him. his denials etc. trying to come to the fore front, he fights it..we talk about it but he denies it. not sure if and what will release it all. he was an assistant in church as a child (episcopal) and i have to wonder if that is his block.. i feel it is, he says no. but the signs are clear to me.. i just support him now. it has to come to the surface to face it. its wasted time for him as he was not a bad person for it. i am sure its happened to many,