I don't know what but something transpired with my mama and oldest brother. She has done SOOOOO much for him including sinking 45k into his sons house remodel. Please pray she is treated with the love and respect she deserves.
We heard a story much like this today, a youngest son taking advantage of an elderly mother, stating he was going to have her house when she is gone even though there are 4 other siblings. The father just died a while back so this is happening even during a difficult time. Drug addict, causes trouble wherever he goes with others. The mother takes his side every time there is an issue. That would just tick me off to no end. I hope your brother does the right thing and pays her back asap so it doesn't cause more tension.
My brother is typically a good guy. Very driven but she is too good to him for him to be rude to her. She is very loving. She is sharp as a tack, however he is supposed to be a good son to her. I told her a good rule of thumb is the Chief commanded respect for her and she should continue to do the same. I told her just spend it all. Chief did that for her, not past grown adults.
Nephew is 27, inside of the house is past done. Now working on the outside, go the fook to your free home, his dad is calling the shots though. Love my nephew. NONE of this would be going down on the Chiefs watch and I do mean that.
I expect way more of out him than this stupid shit.
And his son is literally living at her home right now and has been for a year and a half. THOUGH she loves her grandson, she is ready to have her place to herself. They all live like five minutes from each other meaning my nephews new TOP notch home she financed. A year and a half. Ron would have had not zippo shitto of any of that.
She is handling it or I would be confronting him. I would tell him that is BS and he better come correctly at her. He needs to pay her back also. SHIT would not have happened on the Chiefs watch, js.
