its funny whats being said as i didnt even have to think about any of it. when the bashing came from my whole family including my hubby even i let it go.. brain damaged and healing was needed.. altho i neve expected it to last so long it is not of concern any more. slowly i can see changes and open mindedness is happening.. acceptance more than anything as my hubby would hear it and eyes in the headlight stares at me... not any more.. he finally got it.. having trouble with some of it but its happening. i will take it.they will all come around. i have good kids with good moral fiber that i gave them. its their spouses that have messed them up.. that will take longer.. but they will finally see it all and their lives going into the future will be different. this i see happening.. Thanking God for his mercy and patience with those who cannot see.. theyre worth it.