Perhaps God chooses some of us to be "black sheep"
From Brave Search:
"According to the Bible, God knew each person before they were born. This concept is exemplified in Jeremiah 1:5, where God says, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” This verse highlights God’s infinite knowledge and sovereignty, demonstrating that He had a purpose for Jeremiah’s life even before conception.
Other biblical passages reinforce this idea:
Psalm 139:13-16 describes God’s intimate knowledge of an individual’s life, from conception to birth, and emphasizes His role in shaping their development.
Isaiah 49:5 speaks of God’s plan for a person’s life, established before birth, and His intention to bring them back to Himself."