Alright, I think I know now what I'm supposed to do

I need to apply ESTA to the USA, which takes a couple of days. I really really hope that when you say Quickly, the time schedule allows for that. Immediately I'd likely read get there and worry about the admission later.

I need to resupply shirts and other stuff in Helsinki so don't get surprised if I drive the car out.

If there is a faster option for VISA processing (like on location), please let me know in the next loop. I could get to the US in about 16 hours from here, but the issue is getting admitted to the country.

I'll let you know the flights. I can be there in 3-4 days

Please look at this detour in the light of what extents I'd be willing to go just for a chance to find you. If this works, please be there at the airport for me