A church I was attending asked us to donate to the Red Cross several years ago they took a separate offering for Haiti relief - I was furious- then bc my husband doesn’t follow the stuff I do whipped out the check book and wrote a big check. I was so pissed and I couldn’t grab it out of his hand or everybody sitting around me would think what is wrong with her!!!!? (Me) so HRC Got my money - I stopped going to that church. The pastor had even said we should let anybody in to the country that wants to come. 👿