the women don't marry because they want free health care for themselves and their children, and they make the tax payers pay for their children's birth in the hospital

and they consider it their right to receive those free benefits

and then the fathers are not on the birth certificate most of the time, so the child is considered illegitimate

and so many time the fathers don't feel responsible for day to day care of their own offspring

not every father, per se, but it is common to see the moms get left by the wayside while the dads move onto another family.