Some folks have HORROR stories they went thru, in that regard I don't say that....: )

I understand! I say it because I have done this in the past, been there, done that, and it was a lesson to learn! So I share it with all! And I know many who continually use their stories for sympathy, so I suppose it is a reminder.

Yeah I don't exactly feel the same, who are we to say how long some evil shit jacks somebody up and how long they need encouragement.