I think asking more questions about a person's situation&entanglement with others in situations is warranted before we "project" or advise. b/c honestly, all our advice is coming from our own life, learned experiences, &relationship dances/beliefs/experiences with others. Ask questions b4 judging seems paramount. I realize WHY I can't talk to people about my issues is because they instantly come back with projections. Ask questions, instead of just throwing memes, cliche tag quotes or projection. Take the time, let the emotions pass before you give advice.

I'm realizing WHY I no longer trust/reach out to others. I want to be talked "WITH" not talked "AT" like I'm beneath you in understanding or lower level. Equal communication, an eye-for-an-eye level, equally learning together to understand and I wonder if probably that is another "lost in translation" thing too..

What if an "eye for an eye" meant understanding the other persons viewpoint thru their eyes, before speaking advic