This is just a perspective

Yes, everyone needs that little push but it sould or must also be visual, tangible, impactful, (somewhat) physical, etc. to have a personal impact -whether in the short or long run.

Here's another idea
Maybe or perhaps converse on ones level. I don't mean water down to the point there is little to no meaning. Everything does not have to be filtered though mediums that may or who put their own spin in things - thus watering down info even more al la the telephone game.

Sure there are reasons, but at some point, even the reasons hamper the experience; causing frustration and some to walk away