Some people like to pretend you're the bad guy so they don't have to take accountability for the horrible way they treated you.

These people's sole purpose in life is to criticize others, and they have been set with such psychology that no matter how hard you try to get through to them, you still will not be able to convince them of their mistakes. Therefore, the ideal option is starve them of the attention they seek and to let them go! Pay no attention to their words and focus upon your own tasks, and you shall have a much brighter future waiting for you ahead. Pray for them and shake the dust off your feet. 🤍

I agree narcissists hate to be ignored. Live well. They hate that. But that cannot be your motive. Just continue to try to be the best you can in service to God while here on earth. Narcissists are very depleting. They are hard to avoid because it's an epidemic.