🙏 sounds like worry. Please take the time to slow down and rest, relax and spend time with God. Don’t wear your body out before surgery. It needs to be in a place to heal and I think you are putting undo stress and strain on it with all this running around. Give it to God and enjoy nature, take some beneficial walks. Your family can feed themselves. Anyone can make a PB&J. As you said people will bring food and they can always order pizza. Everyone should be focused on your healing and recuperation right now. I know it’s hard not to do what you’re doing. It sounds like fear to me. That’s why I say give it to God. Saying all of this in love and concern. I know words written don’t always sound that way.