There is a look children get when they are being school tortured because of wrong teaching. I see it and know immediately. I have come to the conclusion that it is all ego on the teachers part. Well meaning sometimes, but it is the wrong approach. Elon is right and I wish that I could be a change maker. I can only control my little class. the secret is compassion, empathy, and ability to see the genius in a child. I think the Waldorf school has some good ideas.