It is, and always will be, the only enjoyable way of doing it. At least, for women. Reason: there is no effective way of preventing the outcome to come alive, there is no zero probability and women are always confronted with the idea of it. Men not so much. It's just a fact of nature. AT least, that's what it was for me, when i still had to consider it. Not any more. I will never take chances, ever again. That one i sorted out for me, cause it doesn't feel right. But then, who's the right one? How to know? That is a complete different question.
From country to country, folk approach marriage in different ways. In Germany, Marriage means nothing to most people. In other places, it's not forbidden to get divorced, but people still don't, because it's old tradition to stick together, no matter what, why i kept searching other places, avoiding the ones, where sticking together doesn't mean a thing. Awful planet of deceit. How do we change this? Ideas? Morale transition? How?