I am praying for both of you. I am so sorry your friend is hurting. I understand that pain. I was in an abusive relationship many years ago, and it changes you. It makes you feel as though you have no options. I also understand the bond with an animal during that time. Animals are amazing, and they have love and compassion and a soul connection that many do not understand. I cannot do much, but offer a line of communitction if it can help. Please let me know, and if either of you would like to reach out, I can give my phone or e-mail info, privately please.