Ok so this is just a meme, but there's got to be a better way. For instance, instead of anger, reason: as in "It's important to know so that if your friend's death was from an adverse reaction, then his case should be part of the information so that people might be saved in the future, maybe even other friends.
If things are going to get as bad as they tell us, then, maybe it's time to put aside anger and try to come together.