Haven't looked at it this way Doq. I mean, I've thought about the Art of War and the enemy not knowing the plan. But, I guess I should love the fact that we have learned discernment...never again do I trust a date that is thrown out...I remember that the Bible says things will change in the twinkling of an eye. I've learned to love God more fully, even though I don't understand fully what/who he is. I've become a tad more patient. And, I fully love complete strangers like you Doq, as we are soul family.