So true, those who have hurt you the most, say who came in as a 3rd party, in my case I had another woman who came into my son's life, the other woman. For many years, I didn't want to mingle with them (ex+her) when she goes to my son's bb games. Until the pivotal moment, where I was being forced to learn the lesson of forgiveness & letting go of the past pain/hurt. So one day, got sick so bad w/ food poison, in LV tourney for my son. And who was there in the bathroom w/ me helping me get thru the physical pain I was feeling, bc nearly fainting, she was. From that moment on, I thanked her & released all the anger/pain, & became friends too even hang out. But also in time, she disappeared our of my timeline, bc I have closed that soul contract/lesson. Same thing occurred w/ my mom,also 3rd party. She accepted/forgave my Dad & her, in one fam gathering. A yr later, my dad came back to house & she left him for good,who passed away a couple yrs ago. HUGE lessons for soul growth.💗😇🙏