Pay attention to the songs you sing outloud. Our words are powerful. When we sing along to songs that speak of suicide, depression, not being enough, fuck boys and hoes, things falling apart, not feeling worthy.. etc. We are attracting those experiences into our lives. The same goes for uplifting music that encourages and inspires. We attract what we feel about ourselves. If we feel we will just continue to suffer and be hurt, that is what we will experience because it is what we believe. If we believe that we can rise and overcome all obstacles.. that is what we will experience.